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The Most Effective "I Want Change" List

Updated: Mar 21, 2023

Beautiful smiling man with to-go coffee cup

What would it be like to live a life where you were free to be?

What would that mean to you?

What would you be?






Straight forward?






It’s interesting by solely asking the question it gives you the idea that you can choose.

Well, the truth is that you can!

So, what would you be?




Laid back?


Would you be?

An attentive parent?

A mindful son or daughter?

A loving sibling?

Grab a piece of paper and make a list. Really! Let's do this!

I've got mine. I'll wait!

Okay, if you were free to be, what would you be?

Here's a pretty photo to help you think!

smooth stones stacked on a beautiful seashore.

(music playing in the background)

Have you got some ideas written down?


Here are a few more that you can add.


Debt free? : )

Take your time and add any area you can think of that could influence your life.

Remember the question is "If you were free to be, what would you be?"

Now look it over.

Wow! Right!

Clean bright beautiful walls in contrast to deep blue sea. Life is Art.

Your life is beautiful!

If you can see it right there on paper, you can be it. Why? Because those are the ideas that came to you. They are you. You are beautiful!

Now, step away from your list and let it sit. Come back and add anything else that comes to mind.

This is a living, breathing list. It will change as you change.

Put it in a special place.

Revisit it from time to time and add to it.

Change is good and it is something we can do, no matter what anybody tells you!

Like my dear friend, John Brown, who has truly attained the status of ARTIST as a manager said to me recently, (as a matter of fact, it inspired this week’s post) “If it’s going to be….it’s up to me.”

Wow. So simple.

Again, the idea is that you can create your future. You can make decisions that help you create the life you know you can live! A life filled with happiness, success, and fulfillment.

Next week, I'll share suggestions on how to create the change!

You are beautiful!

I see it.

With great love,


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Beautiful, Annie! Simple, yet so complex. I control my destiny.

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